7 Tips to Prepare Kids to Move

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It’s hard for anyone to say goodbye to their old home, but it can be particularly difficult for young children who don’t feel in control of the situation.

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Acknowledge Big Feelings

Children can feel denial, bargaining, anger, even depression when being faced with a move. Acknowledge those feelings and help them work through them. Green Round Banner 01

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Make a plan

Sit down together as a family and make a visual timeline to help your child with the transition. Use this time to answer questions. When, Where, What, Why, and How. Let them ask opening and without judgement. Green Round Banner 03

"Coming home is one of the most beautiful things." -Andre Rieu

let them make choices (when possible)

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Drive by. Visit local parks and stores. Spend time in the new neighborhood. And if you can't, share pictures. Anything to familiarize.

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Friendships Done Right

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Remember, moving can be hard and stressful at times. You are making a new home and life for your family. Have patience with each other and remember to give it time. You got this mom and dad.

About Kate

Kate is a mother of 4 and shares their family's journey with autism at Finding Cooper's Voice. Follow her on Facebook Cream Section Separator