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5 Ways to Help Children with Anxiety 

Every kid can feel anxious at times — especially with the last two years of interruption. Many children's mental health has taken a toll.

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According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), more than 7% of children in the U.S. between the ages of 3 and 17 have been diagnosed with anxiety.

Anxiety can cause children to be fearful, worried, irritable and angry. And there are physical symptoms: Kids can feel tired and have headaches, stomachaches and trouble sleeping.

Here are five ways to help your child manage their anxiety...

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validate

When your child says they're worried about something, it can be tempting to say things like, “Don’t worry about it.” Those types of responses send a message that your child’s feelings are wrong. Instead, validate them. 

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tackle negative thoughts

Like adults, your child is prone to negative thinking. This negative thinking can cause anxiety and erode their self-esteem. Help them to change them to positive thoughts. 

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acknowledgeworry

It isn't helpful to tell children not to worry, even when it's coming from a place of love. Help them identify their worry and talk about it. 

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change the subject

If your child is anxious about things they can’t control, such as a test or trip to the doctor, help them get their mind off the anxiety. Get their mind off the subject.

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seek help

Sometimes, more help is needed than a parent can offer. And often, talking to someone removed from the situation can be helpful for a person. 

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Although helping your child with their anxiety can feel overwhelming and draining for many parents, the good news is that they can overcome it.

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