Brothers: When Their Worlds Overlapped
Brothers.
Cooper is 13. He loves trains and DVD cases and bright colored paper. He is part fish and would live in the water if I let him.
He does not like sports. Not one bit. But he adores sitting in the sun with a queen sized comforter and a pillow.
My 11 year old lives for a party. He plays hockey and baseball and anything competitive. He adores babies and puppies and asking me for Roblox. Talks and staying up late and trying to grow up faster than he should.
They live in separate worlds most of the time. The cloak of autism wrapped around the oldest. Holding him tight. They don’t really understand each other. I can say that for certain. But there is love and adoration. A mutual respect.
I often say as a mom I’m straddling two worlds. Arms outstretched.
Practice. Play dates. Homework. White baseball pants to scrub. A negotiation for a cell phone.
Therapy. Miracle league. IEP meetings. Dora, Elmo, and vintage train movies. It’s a secret world full of color.
But last night their worlds overlapped.
An older brother watching the younger brother play catcher. A throw from home to third. And an at-bat.
Just one inning. That’s all he could do. That was his best. And I’ll tell you…it was more than enough.
The people. The sounds. The wind. The sun. A scratchy chair.
‘He came mom. I didn’t think he could do it.’
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