Strength in Adversity: Navigating Autism as a Mother of Four
As a mom of four, one with autism, life has many challenges. Balancing a child with special needs along with three other children can be difficult.
Growing up in a busy household filled with love and laughter, but with the unpredictable chaos that autism can bring in an instant, was not easy.
It was ever-changing, and they were constantly going through the ups and downs that this life can bring.
I know that living this life beside their sister made them stronger and more empathetic people. There was lots of adversity to overcome at different times. Yet they never hold it against her or resent her for it.
They love her always, no matter what. To see them advocate for her and make sure she is included means everything to me.
The true strength comes from my daughter. This girl works so hard every day to exist in a world that is not easy for her.
It is overwhelming and confusing, and hard for her to understand. It places demands that don’t make sense to her. This girl wakes up with a smile every day.
She lights up my life with her pure joy.
Her laughter fills my heart like nothing else.
There is nothing more inspiring than her, and that is where I draw my strength from. Even though there are aspects of her life that are difficult, she perseveres.
This journey has made me stronger as a person and as a mother. It has taught us as a family to be resilient and that we stand stronger together, but strongest beside her.
Written by Kimberly Mcisaac of Autism Adventures with Alyssa
