The Gift of Communication

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I fell this morning. Like a legit fall.

I bounced back up quick but I knew I had hurt my knee.

I pulled up my pant leg and sure enough a huge bruise was already forming.

I’ll also admit my ego was a bit bruised too. Falling. So embarrassing!

Thankfully, no one saw me. Or so I thought.

Minutes ago I heard a familiar sound coming from my son’s iPad.

The Daniel Tiger episode where Miss Elaina gets hurt.

I watched Cooper, sitting cross legged on the ground, move his arms and hands to the music.

He swayed and smiled and pointed to me. More specifically my knee.

Then walked over, bent down, gasped at the bruise and offered it a kiss.

But he wasn’t finished. He pointed to the bandaid in the episode.

And back to me.

Communication. What a beautiful, magical gift.

My son Cooper is 11 years old. On a paper in my drawer it says he has level three nonverbal autism.

And in this moment, I am in awe of his amazing nonspeaking skills.

Empathy. Love. Worry. Awareness.

All gifts that he shared with me today.

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Kate Swenson

Kate Swenson lives in Minnesota with her husband Jamie, and four children, Cooper, Sawyer, Harbor and Wynnie. Kate launched Finding Cooper's Voice from her couch while her now 11-year-old son Cooper was being diagnosed with autism. Back then it was a place to write. Today it is a living, thriving community of people who want to not only advocate for autism, but also make the world a better place for individuals with disabilities and their families. Her first book, Forever Boy, will be released, April 5, 2022.

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