My Bookends

My bookends. My big and my little. 10 and 3 months.

I’ll tell ya this much. They don’t pay too much attention to each other. Their worlds rarely intersect. But if anything comes close to falling (or jumping) on that baby…ahem…like a toddler brother…Cooper is the first to give a holler to let me know. That’s something special if you ask me.

Also, see Cooper’s treasures? The items around him?

He’s loving brown and white paper right now. He has a whole stack.

Those photos? They are from my trip to Scotland my senior year of college. I went with my boyfriend. He dug them out of my memory box in the basement. See we forgot too lock the door and he is opportunistic.

I about spit out my coffee this morning when I came face to face with me kissing my college boyfriend while dancing on what appears to be a table. Or a bar. I can’t be sure. Being 19 looks exhausting.

Anyhow, they are his favorite.

Also mixed in are his favorite train coasters and a white hanger. Because they make him happy. Which makes me happy.

Cooper is the most fascinating soul you will ever meet. I can say that for certain.

Get to know a person like him. It will be so worth it.

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Kate Swenson

Kate Swenson lives in Minnesota with her husband Jamie, and four children, Cooper, Sawyer, Harbor and Wynnie. Kate launched Finding Cooper's Voice from her couch while her now 11-year-old son Cooper was being diagnosed with autism. Back then it was a place to write. Today it is a living, thriving community of people who want to not only advocate for autism, but also make the world a better place for individuals with disabilities and their families. Her first book, Forever Boy, will be released, April 5, 2022.

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