Better Full Than Empty

We are slowly, gingerly, timidly, starting to venture out as a family of six.

We are cautious though.

See, our oldest needs two of us to help him be successful. He likes to run and sit and touch and can often be quite sneaky and fast.

Our two year old needs one of us because he’s two and so does our baby. Typically me because I have dinner.

And Sawyer can help but he often gets distracted by sticks and candy and forgets to hold hands. Because he’s only 8 and that’s what 8 year olds do.

So that leaves us drastically outnumbered. We get stretched really thin.

But not tonight. We went out for ice cream and managed waiting and a ridiculous candy aisle and the only thing that went wrong is I forgot to get ice cream for myself. I was short a hand.

A sweet lady smiled at us and said our hands were certainly full.

She wasn’t wrong.

Better full than empty I always say.

So many questions about Coops amazing pants! They are from LuLaRoe and are his favorite!

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Kate Swenson

Kate Swenson lives in Minnesota with her husband Jamie, and four children, Cooper, Sawyer, Harbor and Wynnie. Kate launched Finding Cooper's Voice from her couch while her now 11-year-old son Cooper was being diagnosed with autism. Back then it was a place to write. Today it is a living, thriving community of people who want to not only advocate for autism, but also make the world a better place for individuals with disabilities and their families. Her first book, Forever Boy, will be released, April 5, 2022.

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