The Calm to Their Chaos

Life has slowed down over here. We are so used to running to and from, in and out.

But we don’t mind. Because we have a baby to hold and snuggle.

Sawyer and Harbie fight over who gets to hold her next. Harbie insists she is his baby. Sawyer, being a mature 8, refuses to argue but also insists that she is his.

And Cooper, he is still taking his time.

I know he’s proud though because this morning he tapped me on the shoulder to get my attention, and pointed to his iPad screen.

Baby Elmo was smiling away. Cooper pointed to his sister and clapped. He knows.

He may not be throwing his hat in the ring to hold her and that’s okay. Because he knows. He’s a boy of few words.

Pretty lucky little girl if you ask me. She seems like she is going to be the calm to their chaos.

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Kate Swenson

Kate Swenson lives in Minnesota with her husband Jamie, and four children, Cooper, Sawyer, Harbor and Wynnie. Kate launched Finding Cooper's Voice from her couch while her now 11-year-old son Cooper was being diagnosed with autism. Back then it was a place to write. Today it is a living, thriving community of people who want to not only advocate for autism, but also make the world a better place for individuals with disabilities and their families. Her first book, Forever Boy, will be released, April 5, 2022.

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