Happy Birthday Grandma

Immediately after Cooper got on the bus this morning I sent this email to his teacher.

Good morning! Cooper wanted me to tell you it’s his grandmas birthday today and we are celebrating tomorrow after the train museum. He’s very excited. He also has crazy socks on!’

I sent it because he is so excited for his grandma’s birthday he can hardly stand it. Add in our trip to the train museum tomorrow and crazy sock day and today is the best day ever for him.

He gasped and danced and smiled so big all morning.

He also asked me more times than I can count to reassure him about the birthday and the museum. Just to super make sure.

But he didn’t ask with words. Because he isn’t able to. He isn’t able to verbally communicate about those things.

So he pumps his fist in the air making a train sound. And he says ‘grandma’ the best he can, although not one part of the word is understandable to anyone but him and I.

Before he got on the bus he paused at the platform and again in the aisle so I could tell the driver and his aide about his excitement.

Then he clapped and gasped and showed his joy.

Imagine not being able to share your excitement and joy with your world. I think about it a lot. All the times Cooper has chosen to stay quiet because he knows no one will understand him.

I made sure to immediately email his teacher so she can ask to see his socks. And hear his gasp about the museum. And smile at his love for his grandma.

I want his voice to be loud and known even if it isn’t his own right now. That’s my goal.

Happy birthday Grandma!

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