A Simple Trip to the Grocery Store

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Trips to the grocery store. Simple right?

Well, this mama didn’t know if we’d ever be able to successfully visit one.

Groceries stores are loud. And crowded. And full of so many things.

There is waiting. So much waiting. And walking. And colors. And different temperatures. And people talking. And asking questions.

In our world we call this a sensory overload.

Then add in a boy who is 9 years old. And looks like every other 9 year old boy who can easily walk through the grocery store. But yet different.

A little boy who practices trips to the grocery store.

Tonight we stopped after a trip to see the Christmas Train. A huge night in our world.

We stopped spontaneously. Unplanned. He was excited. We had him walk. We took our time. He picked out mini muffins and tried to sneak them in the cart. Only he couldn’t stop giggling.

He found the greeting cards. And then the magazines. He picked out a Thomas and a Peppa magazine. We paid. Together.

And then walked calmly through the parking lot.

This is success.

To anyone watching it probably looked odd. With lots of sign language and first-than language.

A few too many stops and visits behind the deli counter. Running. Walking. Stopping. Negotiations. Sitting on the ground.

But the giggles. And the gasps. Oh my goodness the gasps. The joy he experiences with a simple trip to the grocery store.

It’s unbelievable really.

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Kate Swenson

Kate Swenson lives in Minnesota with her husband Jamie, and four children, Cooper, Sawyer, Harbor and Wynnie. Kate launched Finding Cooper's Voice from her couch while her now 11-year-old son Cooper was being diagnosed with autism. Back then it was a place to write. Today it is a living, thriving community of people who want to not only advocate for autism, but also make the world a better place for individuals with disabilities and their families. Her first book, Forever Boy, will be released, April 5, 2022.

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