A Nonspeaking, Autistic Teenager, Wrote An Incredibly, Profound Letter Explaining Autism

I found another amazing article about autism! While I am struggling to write about our own journey it appears that autism is becoming more and more popular in society. YAY! Every time I open up Facebook I see another article or blog that is changing lives and perceptions.

Gordy, a nonspeaking, autistic teenager, wrote an incredibly, profound letter explaining autism….one letter at a time. See his letter below.

Here is a link to the full article.  

What touches me the most is how he talks about the reasons autistic people become aggressive. When Cooper is in severe pain (ears, constipation) he will lash out. He will start hitting himself and others. Like a flip of a switch this sweet, adorable, loving child will turn into someone else. Each time it’s been due to pain. Watching your child become violent is paralyzing. I often don’t know what to do. I’ve cried, hugged, scolded, ignored, etc. Gordy says this is an uncontrollable reaction triggered by fear. That is so amazing to read. Such insights coming from these children.

I read these articles and I believe, ever for just a second, that this is going to be okay. Nonspeaking is fine. We will find Cooper’s voice and someday, whether he is 5 or 25, he will communicate me and tell me his thoughts.

Here is Gordy’s full letter:

 

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Kate Swenson

Kate Swenson lives in Minnesota with her husband Jamie, and four children, Cooper, Sawyer, Harbor and Wynnie. Kate launched Finding Cooper's Voice from her couch while her now 11-year-old son Cooper was being diagnosed with autism. Back then it was a place to write. Today it is a living, thriving community of people who want to not only advocate for autism, but also make the world a better place for individuals with disabilities and their families. Her first book, Forever Boy, will be released, April 5, 2022.

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  1. Meg C. DeBoe on May 19, 2016 at 6:50 pm

    No kidding, I literally just cut and pasted toys link to send to you. Great article! Glad you saw it.



    • Avatar photo findingcoopersvoice on May 19, 2016 at 6:52 pm

      I loved it!!! I cried but mostly I was so proud of that kiddo. So hopeful! Thanks friend!



  2. Meg C. DeBoe on May 19, 2016 at 6:51 pm

    toys = this (argh!)



  3. Elisabeth on May 20, 2016 at 3:51 pm

    Cooper’s mom, you are incredible!
    Yoris’s mom